Consummation is work done for pleasure
You are dancing in a nightclub, relaxing and enjoying the atmosphere. Near the bar, a guy treats you and a conversation starts. Perhaps you will exchange pages on social networks, or perhaps it will just be an interesting conversation and a pleasant acquaintance… A standard situation, don't you agree?
Consumation is a popular trend in the entertainment industry. The service involves exclusively pleasant communication between girls and men – guests of the establishment. The girl's earnings include both a fixed rate and a percentage of the treats. Consumation is somewhat similar to the work of a hostess . The only exception is the service of communication/dinner/accompanying a man in a company, which requires the girl to be present only within the establishment (traveling to other places is strictly prohibited).
The presented service is popular abroad. Many girls choose such activity not only for the summer period, but also as a permanent employment. To dispel the myth that consumption in clubs is scary, unsafe and similar to escort, we decided to consider all the nuances and features of the work.
Who are the clients: who is interested in the consumption service?
The majority of clients are men with high social status. Based on the psychological profile of the client, the following can be immediately said:
- Such men are not interested in wasting time on “unsuccessful hunting”.
- The priority is not intimate relationships, but interesting, intellectual conversation.
- The main desire is to have a good evening, emphasize your importance and self-esteem, and feel in demand.
When choosing establishments, men initially know what consumption is. This makes it possible to exclude clients who expect to continue the evening outside the establishment.
Supply and demand: which girls can earn good money?
Consummation is a job that requires a number of things from girls. The main ones are:
- Age – from 18 to 30 years (but there are often exceptions if the girl is well-groomed, looks great and can hold a conversation).
- Height – from 160 cm.
- The figure is fit (men's eyes are attracted to both slender girls and girls with curves).
- Personality traits: sociability, ability to maintain a conversation, sense of humor, positive attitude.
There are no clear restrictions on the image. As practice shows, many men still prefer feminine, elegant, but at the same time stylish images. Undesirable elements are piercings, exotic hairstyles, large tattoos. But at the same time, if the girl has natural magnetism and a number of other advantages, the administration of the establishment is ready to consider the girl as an exception.
What does the consumption service involve?
The key task of the girls who have chosen the vacancy of consumption for themselves is to create a festive atmosphere and demonstrate interest. What does the presented employment imply:
- Communication with the client.
- A joint dinner at an establishment where the girl is registered.
- Accompaniment at business dinners, in company (at the establishment where the girl is assigned).
- A pleasant pastime, such as dancing.
This is the entire list of what is allowed and permitted. Please note that the girl is prohibited from leaving the establishment during work. Even if you are very interesting to a man, he will not be able to “force” you to go with him. Consummation implies a guarantee of safety and constant monitoring by security. A fact from personal experience: before starting work, the girl is given a stop list, based on which she can stop communicating with the client. Often, the stop list is compiled individually, but there are standard prohibitions: touching, unwanted offers, harassment, insults and rudeness. These points should definitely be clarified with the manager and the agreement should be carefully read before signing the contract.
Consummation: what is it from a security perspective
The work presented is a collaboration with an establishment, which necessarily involves signing a contract. Official confirmation of business relations is a guarantee for both parties at once: for the girl and for the establishment. By signing a contract, you can be sure of the following:
- No one will be able to take you away from the establishment.
- You are always under the supervision of security guards who care about your safety.
- The establishment/company will not take your passport and documents (cooperation is not slavery, it is exclusively the girl’s desire).
- You retain the right to terminate the contract if your employer has breached its obligations.
- Outside of working hours, you can pursue hobbies, relax, go on excursions, learn more about the culture and history of the country (if you work abroad).
Another secret is a good manager. In consumption, the manager's job is similar to the job of a manager in a modeling agency. This is your representative who must give you maximum useful and necessary information, discuss all the features and nuances of the contract. Establishments abroad, like their visitors, care about their reputation. Therefore, consumption is incompatible with escort and prostitution. That is why all the features of the work and the terms of cooperation are necessarily discussed in advance.
Where will you have to work on consumption?
Consumation abroad is most in demand in the USA, UAE, Asian and European countries. Popular and respectable establishments with a solvent audience are chosen as workplaces. Let's look at the most popular workplace options.
Consummation in a bar
The most popular service is consumption in a bar. Here, girls are required to be natural, relaxed and easy. It is important that you manage to become an interesting conversationalist not only for a smiling and positive person, but also for a man who drinks whiskey alone and thinks about something sad. Pros of clients in a bar:
- Lack of high expectations and demands = unpretentiousness.
- Interested solely in conversation rather than anything more.
- The opportunity to earn a good percentage from each drink in one evening.
Working in a bar, you can always find someone who needs pleasant company and a good conversation.
Consummation in the club
Working in a club initially requires the need to “join” the atmosphere of fun, joy and dancing. One of the problems is the difficulty of building a conversation, as loud music interferes with it. Despite this, there are other advantages to the club atmosphere:
- An opportunity to establish contact in an open manner and demonstrate the full power of feminine charm, the charms of your figure and a well-chosen outfit.
- There is no need to endure boring and sometimes tedious conversations that may lead to a dead end.
Working in clubs is a great alternative for those who like to party and have fun. That is why girlfriends often choose this type of work for summer earnings. Fun, bright and profitable.
Consummation in a restaurant
Not the most popular, but profitable “location”. Here girls are required to have all their flirting skills. A common story: a girl alone in the room (at a table or a bar counter), attracts a man with her gaze and uses the full power of her charm. The man, naturally, pays attention and sits down next to you, treating you to drinks and food. The main advantage of such consummation is the man's initial interest. You won't have to win his favor with a conversation or a witty joke.
Consummation in a hookah bar
In addition to the standard duties, the girl's responsibilities may require the ability to fill a hookah, brew and pour tea or coffee. The girl receives a percentage from each hookah, ordered dish and her treats. Smoking a hookah is also discussed with the manager in advance.
Working abroad: consumption and income
The atmosphere and earnings are the key factors that attract girls from all over the world to this occupation. Let's figure out what components the income is made up of:
- The rate is set by the establishment and is agreed upon in advance. Often, its amount varies from $30 to $150, and sometimes more if the girl has several successful consumptions in an evening (1 consumption = 1 purchased drink).
- A percentage of each drink or treat. For example, for each cocktail that men treat a girl to, she gets up to 15-20% of its cost, and the rest goes to the establishment. On average, a girl gets from $2 to $20 for each glass, but quite often men choose a bottle of champagne for a treat. In this case, you can earn $200.
What is private communication? This is one of the services when you communicate with the client 1 on 1 in a place where it is not so noisy. This can be, for example, a lounge area. In this case, the tariff increases and can be from $20 to $50, and sometimes more. On average, you can earn up to $3000 per month, not counting tips, “private” communication. If you work in a foreign country, then this is enough not only to relax, but also to take a small capital with you.
What are the prohibitions for girls when working in the consummation sector?
Cooperation with the establishment is an agreement between two interested parties. To guarantee your safety, the administration also has a number of requirements and rules:
- The use of narcotic substances is prohibited both during working and non-working hours.
- The workplace may prohibit the consumption of alcoholic beverages (or set a certain limit, for example, 1-2 glasses).
The question arises – what to do then, if during the evening many men treat you to cocktails. Each girl is watched by several people, including the bartender
. To prevent the situation from getting out of control, instead of alcohol, the girl is given non-alcoholic analogues, which are visually no different from the usual cocktails. This makes it possible to consume without difficulty, enjoy the atmosphere. At the end of the evening, all the girls are taken to the places where they live. Usually this is a hotel.
Why did I choose consumption?
I was 23 and it was a long-awaited trip to the UAE with my friend. What can I say, we had been saving up for it for almost a year. Naturally, we didn’t want to spend all our money. And it’s the capital of shopping malls. In addition to shopping, we also loved hanging out in clubs. I was surprised when I found out that you can earn money by meeting and communicating with men. At first, I was just interested in how it works. And then “sporting interest” kicked in. We knew English at a satisfactory conversational level, so we decided to give it a try. So, just interest grew into my main source of income. After 4 months, I moved to Dubai. In addition to good earnings, I discovered other advantages of working in consumption:
- Language practice.
During this time, I have improved my English so much that I speak at the level of a native speaker. This is excellent language practice. By the way, I am learning Arabic now.
- Communication.
Communication is acquaintances, and sometimes very useful acquaintances. During this time I communicated with businessmen, politicians, owners of their own productions, doctors, athletes. Thanks to work I was able to visit interesting events, shows (completely free of charge).
- Maintaining reputation.
I have never had a biased attitude towards myself. This is not an escort, not intimate services. You are perceived in society as an equal, so I have never encountered ridicule, rudeness or reproaches.
- Expanding horizons.
It is difficult to constantly live on a night schedule, so the restaurant makes up your personal schedule so that there is time for a normal life. During this time, I have managed to visit different countries, open my own small business. And most importantly, I turned my hobby into work. I loved spending time with friends, dancing, having fun and living my life with pleasure. And so it happened. Now this work brings me joy, a good income and the opportunity to live the way I have always dreamed of. Yes, this is work, and I take it responsibly. But this does not prevent me from being happy, enjoying myself and going with pleasure, communicating with people.