How to find your dream job in a nightclub after webcamming and marriage

• During my entire time working as a webcam, I came across up to 20 people who just wanted to talk. Yes, I was a counselor for men going through a divorce, with emotional trauma. Honestly, I loved those evenings, because for a regular conversation I could easily earn up to $500.

But in most cases I had to undress, show my whole body, and sometimes fulfill unusual wishes. If you have a lot of prejudices, complexes, then such work is either an opportunity to get rid of them, or an even greater way to aggravate them. I was young, relaxed and open to any experiments. For myself, I have identified the following advantages of working as a web model:

• The ability to choose when you work and when you don’t (subject to self-employment).
• Not a bad income, opportunity to find work with earnings in dollars.
• There are no strict requirements for parameters, height and appearance.

But there are also some downsides that need to be discussed. The main ones are:

• Adequate audience – no more than 5%, be prepared for the fact that you will be asked to do something that you may not be quite ready for.
• When you undress on camera, there is always a chance that your video or photo will end up on the Internet or social networks.
• It is important to be prepared for different situations (I often had to see not the most pleasant things on live television).

If you want to earn good money and think that you will be able to just sit nicely and chat with the client, then this is not so. I know many girls whose psyche was ruined by such work, it left an unpleasant aftertaste. I always urge you to think carefully before becoming a representative of this industry.

Working in a marriage agency: personal experience, detailed review, prospects and opportunities

After webcam, the marriage agency became a “discovery” for me in the literal sense. This job is a great option for those who are looking for passive income that can grow into a permanent one. A pleasant bonus is the opportunity to find a life partner. You can get a job at a marriage agency either as a translator or as a model. If you know English or another foreign language, you can try working there. This is great practice, and I know many translators/philologists who have worked as translators in marriage agencies. You will have to communicate with men, respond to messages so that it seems that the person is communicating directly with the girl in the photo. Each message is paid for. The longer you “stay in touch with the man,” the more you can earn. If you want to earn money as a model, you will have to provide your photos and passport details. Why does an agency need a passport? First of all, so that men understand that they are talking to the person who attracted them in the photo.

• By the way, many agencies organize a photo shoot before publishing a girl's photo on the site. Such photo shoots usually involve bright makeup and flashy outfits.

All information is passed on to the agency and the photo is published.

How to make money in a marriage agency?

Your appearance is your business card. Your photos are published on the site. The more attractive you are, the more men will want to contact you, chat. A percentage is deducted from each message to the girl. Also, do not forget about gifts, presents that foreigners like to give. These can be money transfers, bouquets, etc.

• What I liked about the marriage agency, the work – there is no taboo, everything is open and clear. You can discuss with the manager in advance the possibility of viewing profiles, reading messages. Among my acquaintances there are cases when girls were interested in finding a man, and such communication led to trips, meetings and even marriage.

It turns out that you have the opportunity not only to improve your financial situation, but also to meet a foreign man.

Difficulties and peculiarities of cooperation with marriage agencies

It can't be all that rosy, because any job has its nuances. Before I started working at the marriage agency, the reviews from girls and women with “experience” were very different. Some managed to earn consistently high amounts for a long time, others – rarely. My TOP features that you need to know about:

• Your success does not depend only on you.

Your earnings mainly depend on the translator and his ability to build communication. Naturally, the agency quickly removes “bad” translators from its staff, but at the same time they “train” on profiles.

• Database of potential grooms.

Each profile needs to develop a database of potential suitors. This will require building communication correctly, writing detailed answers, and sending out messages to other men. In essence, it's like roulette: today you might get 10 messages, and tomorrow – nothing.

• Exchange any contact information with interested men.
• Communication on vulgar topics and correspondence of an intimate nature.
• Extortion of money.
• Rudeness and boorishness towards men.

My income was hard to call stable. Sometimes there were just profitable weeks, and sometimes – several weeks without earnings at all. If you want to regularly earn a large amount, or you have many obligations, then this option can be left as passive income.

Before and after: why did I choose to work in a nightclub?

One of the options for earning money that I also wanted to test sounded like “consumation”. I just needed to hang out, meet men, talk to them and…that’s it. I took this job seriously, because I had to adjust my schedule and life a little.

• In the country
  In the CIS this type of income is not popular, but in the USA, UAE, and Asia it is in demand.

Finding an agency was easy, considering the number of acquaintances. I immediately asked the manager to tell me how everything happens. They explained to me in detail the specifics of the work, how much I can earn in an evening, minimum and maximum, what guarantees and risks I have. By the way, they did not hide from me that some “characters” can be rude, offer to go with them. After that, they introduced me to all the security guards who were responsible for me. I talked to other girls to get an independent opinion.

• What surprised me was the girls' appearance and outfits. Everyone looked well-groomed, elegant and, in a word, expensive. You want to treat such women not with cheap, but with exclusive drinks. Having talked to them, I realized that they are all intellectually savvy. You can talk to them about the weather, literature, psychology, and with one of them – about physics.

Already on the first evening I understood why the girls from the consumation are like that. I talked to 3 men. Each of them had completely different interests, and no one hinted at anything more than a conversation. Yes, during my work I came across strange individuals, and there was also rudeness. But it is so nice that you don’t have to endure it, like, for example, on a webcam, and you can just turn around and leave. You manage your own time. In addition, working in a nightclub, especially for those who like to let loose, is an opportunity to have a great time, get to concerts and truly legendary parties, where men do not spare money for those who can share the feeling of fun with them.

Did my taboos affect my work in a nightclub?

During my experiments, I developed several taboos (perhaps I simply outgrew my youthful spontaneity). For me, the following is unacceptable in my work:

• Any physical contact (hugs, the ability to grab where you can’t).
• Rudeness, insults and boorishness.
• Hints at intimate relationships, escort and prostitution.
• Attempts to humiliate me.

Firstly, I believe that these are some of the signs of healthy self-esteem. Secondly, my work did not violate my taboos and principles in any way, but on the contrary, supported them. While working in a nightclub, I was always watched. Attempts to hug or touch me, which is not uncommon on the dance floor, were strictly suppressed and controlled by me and the security. My safety, physical and mental health were a priority. This is not only mine and the security’s merit, but also the manager’s, who chose establishments with a good reputation. Today, I continue to work in consumption. During this time, I managed to accumulate capital without compromising my lifestyle and outlook. Today, I help my family, travel, learn new languages and continue to live a fun life. Naturally, this job is not forever, because young girls come to the industry every year, but the niche is only developing, so the demand will continue to grow. Consumation is a good start for those who want to save a certain amount for education, an expensive purchase. The most important thing is that you choose when to work.